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I really love only working part-time instead of full-time plus part-time! I have fewer migraines, am less grumpy, and I have time for lower-priority items such as organizing my life.

I really like everything all neat and organized!

Here’s all my beads sorted into trays that fit into two carry bags.

We’re going to move again soon, and for the first time in several moves I’ll have time to sort and get rid of some things. I won’t be able to go through everything, because some of it is too inaccessible in the garage and the storage unit, some of it still packed in boxes from the last move. But I’ll slowly sort all of it once we’re moved.


Or actually, deconstruction has finally started!
We spent a lot of time this winter designing a big remodel plus living room addition, but it turned out it would cost way too much. Big disappointment!
We scaled the remodel down to something much more modest, and got bids at a small fraction of the cost of the original project. This new, smaller remodel does not include any architectural changes, no additions, and no expensive finishings (no wood beams, etc.)
Now we are finally able to start! Today the demolition guys were at it. Wow, it’s real now!

We are replacing the downstairs carpet with tile, and before we do that, we’re going to raise the living room floor (which is one step down). The step down is dated, and it’s a trip hazard.

John always disliked the brick underneath and behind the wood stove (I thought it was fine), but we are taking it out.

Now we need to decide what to put around the wood stove instead.
In our first “House Hunters” episode, we looked at these 3 houses:
House #1 (Needs work)

House #2 (Large and expensive)

House #3 (Cute but expensive)

See, I’m being repetitive, just like the real show! But unlike the show, we’re actually considering 6 houses. Here’s the other 3.
House #4
This one has been sitting on the market for a long time (over 3 months), because it is over-priced. The on-line photos are also poor. It’s possible they’d come down in price, since it’s not selling. Or they could just be waiting indefinitely for that “right” buyer. Either way, it could be a nuisance to negotiate with a buyer who has an inflated opinion of the property’s value, and an agent who doesn’t bother to post good photos.

- Pros: Close to the foothills
- Cons: Over-priced and the listed price is over our budget
House #5
This house has been sitting for almost 3 months as well. It’s a high price per square foot, probably because the owners have added some custom updates and want to recoup their expenses. Unfortunately, the upgrades aren’t what I would want for a rental. The windows have built-in shades between the two window panes. Those are neat, but in the intense New Mexico sun, the strings will rot and the blinds will break inside the windows. And that’s an expensive fix. Also they’ve installed new, white carpet, which is just not practical for a rental.

- Pros: Close to the foothills, well cared for by the owners.
- Cons: High price per square foot, and also listed over our budget
House #6
This house is similar to House #2 in my previous post, and in the same neighborhood, but this one is smaller, and thus, less expensive. It’s only been on the market for a few days, and shouldn’t have any trouble selling.

- Pros: Closer to our budget than any of the other 5 houses. Newer, and doesn’t need very much work.
- Cons: It is tall and narrow, and feels like a townhome inside, even though it is a detached home. Very close to the neighbors.
And I don’t know, what do you think of that mish-mash of style elements? Traditional southwest wood accents…but with a turret?
I would like to recommend this piece of fiction in The New Yorker magazine. Generally I’m wary of fiction in The New Yorker and also the Atlantic, because it’s never uplifting. And this piece is emotionally difficult. But I appreciate its direct honesty.
http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/04/17/you-are-happy
Sometime New Yorker fiction is obtuse and vague, trying-to-be-clever. But this story is straightforward. New Yorker fiction can also be depraved, or worse, depraved and trite. But this piece rings of tragic truth, sensitively handled.

We sold our rental property in California yesterday (yay)! Rather than taking the money and going on wild spending spree, or trip around the world, we’re going to put it all back into rental property. This seems the prudent thing to do in order to help fund retirement. It also postpones taxes by rolling the money into replacement property. This is similar to rolling over other types of funds. The money never goes into your account, so it stays invested. It’s called a 1031 exchange.
One of the rules of the exchange is we have 45 days to identify new property. We’re buying 2, and luckily we’ve already identified the first one. So we only need to worry about finding the other one. This simplifies things considerably – I was worried about trying to buy two at once! I feel under a lot of pressure to do this right. We’ve made mistakes buying property in the past, and I want to choose wisely.

They always look so much better in the photos than in real life!
Now let’s play “House Hunters!”
House #1
House #1 is an older 1-story, 3-bedroom.

(uh, no, the metal buffalo doesn’t come with the house)
- Pros – Across the street from a park, pretty backyard
- Cons – funky layout, needs updating inside, I don’t like the street name, and the listing price is over our budget.
Now you’re wondering what the street name is. It’s Admiral Emerson. It just doesn’t sound very homey to me.
House #2
House #2 is a 2-story, 4-bedroom on a small lot, in one of those newer subdivisions with tall skinny houses right next to each other.

- Pros – 4-bedroom, nice inside, doesn’t need any work, should rent quickly
- Cons – It feels like a townhome inside, even though it’s not. Also, it’s right next to the mailboxes for the neighborhood, so lots of people are stopping on the street in front of the house to get their mail, oh, and, it’s over our budget.
House #3
I haven’t seen this one yet, it just came on the market this afternoon. So it could be a lot worse in person than it looks online. But it sure looks pretty from the picture!

I think this one will sell fast.
- Pros: Great curb appeal
- Cons: There’s a hot tub in the backyard, which I’d love if it were for me, but I’m worried about liability for a rental. It’s also listed at a bit over our budget, but not by as much as Houses 1 & 2.
My dream that was interrupted last night, was one of social rejection. In the dream I had joined a group; a religious organization or a club of some sort. And I was not being accepted into the group.
It was subtly done. They took my donation check, but wrote on it that I had failed to show up for the volunteer meeting (although I was at the volunteer meeting when I handed them the check). They had no lunch for me, when everyone else was provided lunch. They ignored my attempts to say anything. So I was crying on a metal folding chair in middle of a meeting room, my daughter attempting to console me, when suddenly…
I awoke to the screaming of a little dog. I know that it’s convention to say a dog is “crying” but this dog was definitely screaming in terror or wild pain. Our minds always try to guess the causes of the unexplained, and I envisioned a dog having partially dislodged or chewed a plug and electrocuting.
I have not jumped out of bed so fast in 25 years, not since my own children were babies and I slept with one ear open to the sounds of coughing, puking, crying and the things that go “crash” in the night.
Still asleep, but somehow wide awake, my feet took me in the direction of the screaming, as I shouted, “I’m coming, I’m coming!” with John running right behind me.
There she was, my littlest, my oldest, my frail and graceful Rosie who never makes a sound, dangling by her hind leg as if in a trap. She had somehow gotten caught in what I thought was a completely dog-safe house. I picked her up, and all was instantly well again. She was not injured, only briefly terrified.

Perhaps the theme of this post is not terror in the night, but consolation by those who love us.
Our neighbor invited us to her Kentucky Derby party on Saturday! She said they dress in costume, so I had to google it to find out what to wear. I don’t know anything about the Kentucky Derby!

So I sewed silk flowers on my sunhat.

Here I am, in my neighbor’s beautiful yard. Someday I’ll have a yard with flowers too 🙂

I got these from the listing on Zillow. I’ll take more photos once it’s empty.
Front of main house

Front of casita

Patios

Living room

dining room

kitchen

office

second bedroom and hall bath

master bedroom

master bathroom

Casita

And last but not least – a bocce ball court!

I have this magic stuff in my freezer.

Feeling guilty about eating leftover greasy, cheesy pizza? Put some spinach on it! Brats for lunch? Put some spinach on it! Leftover huevos rancheros with chorizo sausage and beans? Put some spinach on it!

It’s cheap! It’s fast! It’s easy! And you can eat anything, guilt-free!
(Disclaimer – doesn’t work for chocolate cake.)
We’ve got sideways blowing hail slamming the house, buckets and buckets of downpour, and lightening right over the house. It’s all astoundingly loud.

You know how they say to count between the lightening flash and the thunder, to estimate how far away the lightening is? Well, there’s no counting in this case. Just flash-hiss-whine-boom-boom-boom. Not even time enough for me to yelp between the flash and the boom.

Luckily the dogs are doing pretty well with it. I think it helps that I don’t mind. They know me so well that if I were even the least bit perturbed, they would be scared too. Although I do have a healthy respect for lightening. I’m quite scared of it if I’m on a small boat, in a tent, out hiking, or anywhere other than inside a secure building. Thank goodness for a good house. Very grateful.

We even still have our electricity (shockingly). Although the internet is out.

LOL, my dogs just had breakfast, so my boy dog had to go out there and poop in this crazy weather. You go dog, go! My girl dogs are like, “uh-uh, no way, not doing that.” The weather will either improve before they lose it, or I’ll be cleaning up the floor.

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