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The new septic system in the house we are buying was supposed to be done today. Our final walk-thru was scheduled for this evening, and closing was supposed to be tomorrow.
But this septic project has run into several problems. First, they wanted to plow through several trees.
Then they discovered that rules have changed (or are recently being implemented more strictly by the inspectors), and they have to build a much bigger system than expected, because of the casita (guest house).
Here’s the dual tank system, adequate for a 5 bedroom house (in this case, a 3-bedroom house plus a 1-bedroom casita counts the same as a 5-bedroom house).

Then they hit bedrock while trenching for the drain field. This required the drain field to be installed at a slightly higher elevation, so they could no longer depend entirely on gravity, and they had to install a pump. We were very disappointed to have to have a pump, which will require maintenance and electricity. Here’s the pump system.

Here they are wiring the pump system to the casita’s electrical system. This is requiring trenching all the way around the casita into the front yard.

Here’s you can see the pretty little flagstone walkway that no longer exists.

But even with the pump in, they are still having a great deal of trouble finding adequate drain field space due to the unexpected bedrock. They dug lots of holes all over the land, trying to find a section without bedrock.

Now they’re saying they may have to take out the bocce ball court.

It was so beautiful when we first made an offer, but now I am starting to wonder if we should even buy this house.
We’re currently feeling discouraged, but we’ve rescheduled closing to June 9, and we’ll just have to see what happens between now and then.
I just read a really amazing article about how people can learn to see things via electrical impulses to their tongue. This is because what we experience as “seeing” is something our brains do from external inputs, not something our eyes do.
The tongue-seeing device is available for purchase for the visually impaired, but it’s low resolution, gray-scale and very expensive. And it takes a long time for the brain to learn to understand the input. So it’s hard work to learn to use it. But it’s been invented, is in production, and now all it needs is improved and refined.
There’s another device that allows people to “see” things through sound. And one in production that will allow people to “hear” speech using vibrations in something they are wearing on their torso, which is never connected to their ears in any way.
This new science is called “sensory substitution.”
http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/05/15/seeing-with-your-tongue
Anyone ever wonder what a brownie point is?
At any rate, I want appreciation, no, I want immense, heartfelt gratitude for having just spent 57 minutes and 27 seconds on the phone with PNM (Public Service Company of New Mexico), i.e. our electric company. That is less than 3 minutes shy of an entire hour.
That’s what we get for moving out of 2 houses and converting them both to rentals, and having 2 mailing addresses in California while having 2 service addresses in New Mexico, and then moving into a rental that we don’t own, and then moving into a house that we do own that used to be a rental, and then buying 2 more rentals…
It’s still not all straightened out, but I’m supposed to be getting an email when it is.
Now I’m going to go eat the last brownie. Uhhh…different kind of brownie.

Like any remodel, we’re having a variety of little issues out there. The plumber caused a leak, damaging a cabinet. The bottom drawer swelled up so much it will need replaced.

The electrician broke an expensive new light fixture. Someone installed a baseboard heater a foot off the ground (why?) and it needs moved down, to line up with the others. The window installers broke a riser for the sprinkler system, so when it came on, water was gushing everywhere. Luckily John had stopped up there on his way to work and noticed it.
But it’s exciting to see the upgrades. One of my biggest priorities was to get the windows replaced. They were failing, and leaking. Not only leaking water when it rained, but also leaking air. They were extremely noisy in the wind; howling and whistling. And we get a lot of wind in New Mexico, particularly on top of that hill. It was like a haunted house up there!
All the windows are getting replaced. Most of them are just being switched out with the same size, but one, with an excellent view of the mountains, is being reconfigured to take better advantage of the view.
Here’s the before and after shots. Originally we had 3 windows with a total of 5 window panes breaking up that view. Now there’s just one big picture window. Actually, that’s a terrible photo and doesn’t do it justice. Let’s just say that in person, it’s a surprising and dramatic improvement.

Greed, guilt, or just plain fear? I’m noticing I’m really stressing about buying rentals, and trying to make the best choices with the funds. Trying to avoid tax pitfalls and maximize returns…to the point where I’m getting insomnia. And I’m wondering why that is? Why am I not simply grateful for what we have? Why don’t I just make a good guess and go for it?
I think part of it is guilt. I’ve always worked very hard in life. I was a single parent while working, going to school, and earning both a master’s degree in environmental science and a certification in life coaching. For many years I worked in 2 careers simultaneously, environmental planning and life coaching.
Now I’m only working part-time as a life coach. I don’t make that much money anymore, compared to when I was working 2 jobs. Meanwhile, John is working very hard. I worry about him. His health isn’t perfect. We’re both getting older. I feel like I should be doing as much as I can; doing my part by investing this money wisely.
I want him to be able to retire while his health is still good, before he ruins his health working too hard. But with the health care system so messed up in this country, how can we even guess how much we’ll be spending on health care?
Guilt – John works harder than I do. Guesswork – the inscrutability of the future. Grateful – to not have to work as hard as I used to. Grateful – to be in New Mexico again. Grateful – to be able to coach my clients. Greed? What is that, really? How do we ever know when enough is enough, and when wanting becomes wanting too much?
One thing I think I will do, is lower my coaching rates a little bit. My rates seemed normal in California. In fact, they were normal in California. But my perspective is different now that I’m back in New Mexico. Of course my clients are mostly in California (and New York and Boston), which is possible because I work over the phone with them. But still, I’m here now, in New Mexico. Maybe my rates can reflect that, to some degree at least.
At my request, John spent this evening building a spreadsheet to try to estimate this final leg of our working life prior to retirement. How long do we have to work? How hard do we have to work? How many rentals or other investments do we need? Do I need to accept more clients, or go back into my environmental career? I’ve run spreadsheets before myself, and now I’m looking forward to seeing his.
We hope to go hiking on Mt. Taylor tomorrow and we can talk about it then. It’s our little mini-trip since we canceled our 4-day backpacking trip; being too busy working.
I spotted this post from a neighbor…
“Lost Dalmatian. Answers to Katy, sort of or she would be here. Any help greatly appreciated.”
The weekend started out a bit rough, with John having to endure a trip to the dreaded motor vehicles division. And I had a migraine (better now, thanks). And we’re missing the vacation we’re not taking.
The current owners of the house we’re buying in Pacitas are having an estate sale this weekend. Except they’re in Colorado. They just took the items they wanted, moved away, and abandoned the contents of the house to the estate sale company. This is the house that’s getting the septic system replaced. It’s not totally apparent to us what happens if an estate sale visitor uses the toilet (which they will), but we believe the septic tank is in, even though the drain field definitely isn’t.
Since we are not the owners yet, we have very little control or even knowledge about what’s going on out there. We did see long lines of cars parked all over the edges of the property and in the yard. I think we’d be concerned about them making a mess of the desert landscape, which is very slow to recover from even footprints, much less car tracks, EXCEPT, how can we complain about car tracks everywhere when a huge section is torn up with backhoes? We can only hope that when we do our final walk-thru on Wednesday that everything’s reasonably ok.
Meanwhile my phone, which I dropped a little while back and had fixed, has been flakey ever since. It was finally bad enough today that while in Albuquerque on errands, we decided to stop and get it looked at again. We figured while waiting for the phone to be repaired, we could go to the nearby Trader Joe’s and get some groceries. We then got sidetracked by an ice cream shop (entirely John’s fault).
After the phone was fixed (yay!), we did make it to the Trader Joe’s, whereupon John asked me if I minded if he made jambalaya. He’s so funny. Why does he even say things like that? How could anyone in their right mind say, “No, I don’t want you to make jambalaya.” (?!?)

There were shrimp too; I took this photo was right before he put them in. John is an excellent cook, although he doesn’t have time to cook very often. The jambalaya is fabulous. Quite spicy, but not so much as to distract from the other flavors.
I was going to post CCR’s “Born on the Bayou” as a fitting end to this post, but it’s not loaded on my computer and I can’t find my boxes of actual CD’s (yes, I’m old, I own CD’s – but not tapes or records – so I’m not THAT old). Anyway, they must be packed in storage (because – remodel). And I’m not posting the youtube video because it starts with an ad. So you’ll just have to hum it to yourself. Hmmm, hmm, hmm, hmm, hmm.
No wait – here we go, you’re in luck! Look what I found, the Foo Fighters doing “Born on the Bayou” LOL, that’s excellent. Although there’s still no substitute for Creedence Clearwater Revival (yeah, ok, I am old. fine.)
Hey Laura! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VrBLs_qweYk
As you know, we’re in the process of buying 2 houses, one of which is getting a new septic system put in, plus we’re also remodeling our own house. So we came to the reluctant decision to cancel our Memorial Day Weekend trip plans.
In between choosing tile and buying houses, John has been spending hours buffing his new, used boat. I think it’s a stress relief activity, because the boat doesn’t need buffed. What it needs is a good dunking in a big lake, which hasn’t happened since he bought it a couple of months ago. We just haven’t had time.

Here’s me, keeping him company while he buffs the boat in the driveway. The only thing missing: water.

We are now under contract to buy this cute little townhome on Academy Ridge Road!

This is House #11, you can see more photos in my Day 13 post.
There was one other offer that came in right after ours, but this time we won the bid. I think part of what helped was we offered immediately after it went on the market (John hadn’t even had time to see it first), so were able to get under contract before the weekend. Plus, it being the Friday of a holiday weekend probably helped too.
One of the things I love about this house is it’s somewhere John and I would be happy living ourselves. I like being able to offer for rent a place that I feel good about. And it feels like a little bit of a safety net, if we did ever had to downsize, or move back into town for health reasons or something.
Inspections will be this coming week, with a hopeful closing date of only 2 weeks from yesterday.
The only question now is what to do with the remainder in the 2031 exchange. We tried to spend it out, but we didn’t want to over spend it. And we didn’t find a property we liked worth exactly the right amount, so we ended up under spending it. Our options are to take the remainder in cash and pay 35% tax on it, or to try and buy a little bit of land for cheap. A third option would be to use the remainder as a down payment, and take a loan to buy yet another rental, but neither John nor I want to do that.
I believe in paying taxes, but 35% of a chunk of money is still a chunk of money. I had originally been thinking something like 15%, which is the capital gains rate. But turns out, all gain up to the accumulated depreciation taken on the property is taxed at the Sec. 1250 rate of 25%. Then add to that the state tax, which in New Mexico would only be 2.5%, but since the property was sold in California, we have to pay the California rate of 10%. For a total of 35% tax.
On the other hand, what would we do with a little plot of low-end land? Land doesn’t generate cash flow, and there’s almost no appreciation in New Mexico, and it’s very difficult to sell land here. So we’d just have a piece of land.
I sure wish I could simply use 1031 funds for remodeling, because I could always find remodel projects, LOL!
Speaking of…the new windows have arrived at the Homesteads house, and they are just starting to cut the old ones out.

It’s hard to watch all the destruction going on at the Calle del Norte house, which we are buying. We’re set to close on Thursday.
Here’s a photo of a length of trench, with the casita in the background.

The new septic tank is in.

Now they are trenching for the drain field. The trenching is very deep. Here you can see the line going down along the bocce ball court, which connects the tank to the field, which is located out past the trees.

Here’s the tree I’ve been trying to save. If you zoom in, you can see some large roots have been severed.

Here’s one of the workers, carefully maneuvering the smaller of the backhoes between the bocce ball court and some juniper that I cut back, hoping to save. He had originally requested all that juniper be cut down. After I cut out about 1/3 or 1/2 of it out, he has room, but barely.

There’s a lot of disturbed ground out there now, and in the desert it will be years before it looks natural again, which is discouraging. But when you flush, you want it to go down…and stay down!

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