Let’s Dance

I recently started a Meetup group to go to the local live music shows, because it’s just not John’s thing. This way I’ll have a group of people to go with. But at some point in the past I had turned off my email notifications from the Meetup app because otherwise it can get overwhelming. Some of the groups I belong to send out emails all the time.

Then I sort of forgot about my new Meetup group for a week or so. Which is fine if I had simply joined an existing group, but this one I had started myself. So I’m supposed to be organizing an event!

I finally remembered to look at it this morning, and 38 people had joined my new group! I’m like, no way! And one of them had written and wanted to know when we were going to get started. Uh! Right! Let me get on that!

I get myself into too many commitments, and then I whine because I don’t have enough energy to keep up with it all. But I’ve been really into music lately and I really want to do this.

So this morning I posted to the group asking for venue and band suggestions. And then I updated my notifications to get emails from my own group but not all the others I’ve joined (and am currently ignoring).

Meetup is designed to facilitate local group get togethers based on a shared common interest. It has all kinds of groups. Hiking, yoga, gaming, various religious and therapy type groups, music oriented groups, book clubs, you name it. There are several autism related groups, and I’ll occasionally go to one of those events.

There are a couple of other live music meetups, but none of them quite work for me. One group just follows a single (fairly mediocre) band that often plays at venues that I don’t like very well. Another group mostly goes to listen to heavy metal at bars. I prefer outdoor plazas, although soon it’s going to get very hot in Tucson.

Well, wish me luck with this new endeavor, we’ll see if it works out! I still don’t have our first event scheduled. Hopefully someone will have a great idea. If not then, I’ll just have to pick something!

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