On my second day in California, Laura and I were invited to Filoli Gardens by Laura’s friend, Bridget.
Bridget has been going through a horrible, tragic time – her husband recently took his own life. Laura has been doing what she can to be supportive.
Originally our trip to the gardens was going to be a mother-daughter outing, with Bridget’s mom invited too. But Bridget and her mom were struggling to get along that morning, with everyone grieving in the aftermath of the tragedy. Bridget texted that she was going to be late.
The weather was iffy. Cold and windy.

Laura and I decided to wait for Bridget inside.

A peek at the courtyard:


Bridget arrived alone, in tears. We were glad she came despite it all. It was good for her to get out.

Here’s photos of the kitchen and dining areas in the mansion.






Next we headed out to view the gardens.



















Here is Laura with Bridget; Bridget with a brave smile for the camera. She’s a lovely, strong, woman and I’m glad Laura has her for a friend.

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